July 18, 2023

100 Down…..

So earlier this month I hit my mark of losing over 100 pounds. It has been a little emotional hitting this milestone. I don’t recall the last time I was this weight. I remember a time in the 90s when I dropped a lot of weight while working at Target. I recall one day seeing my best friend’s girlfriend at work wearing MY shirt. My […]

January 1, 2023

Life’s has new beginnings

Things have changed a lot in the past year. Hayden changed his life in so many ways this year. He went crazy on bodybuilding and becoming a super lean young man with a lot of muscle. Over the past year and a half, I’ve lost 70 lbs, my blood sugars have been a constant 6.0%. All of which is great, I’ve learned how to take […]

June 13, 2022

Ex-Wives are the worst

My Ex seems to not be able to let me go. She is always commenting to my son about me, or things I do. My son will complain to her and she will comment that I’m a horrible person and not a real parent, etc. Yet who is housing our son, raising him, helping with his needs? Not the lady that moved to the next […]

September 20, 2021

Amazing how time flies!

Many things have happened over the past couple of years. Covid-19 hit in early 2020. Bringing the world to a stand still. Countries shut down boarders. Locking people in that wanted out, and people out that wanted in. A large number of people started to get sick. People within weeks started to work from home. The streets were pretty bare. I continued to go into […]

August 27, 2020

Dogs are just like kids…

If you are in the house with them, they are perfect. The minute they are left alone, they become a terror. I can be home all day and Pepper just wanders around the house and just lays around, getting in no trouble. Today I forgot to kennel her when I left. Thought about it 10 minutes later on the way to the gas station. I […]

April 25, 2020

Struggles with a teenager and an ex-wife

Marriage, the birth of a child, or a job prepare you for many things in life. But there is nothing that prepares you for dealing with a teenager, an ex-wife, or the combination of both. Last year, things seemed as though they were going along just fine. The ex-wife had made a rule that our son would be dropped of at the curb, that she […]

March 24, 2019

Prison blues…

Recently my Ex started to date a man. It is no concern of mine. She left our marriage long before our divorce, she gave no effort to make it work. My concern is for my son and the environment she is putting him into. The man that she is dating is Ryan, a 40 year old man, who has been in prison since he was […]

December 23, 2017

It’s been a long long time

So it has been a while since I wrote anything on the site. I’ve tried to stay away from writing about my EX. But she has become more and more difficult to deal with. Months ago, she and Hayden got into a fight. The next thing I know I get an email stating I was no longer welcome in her home and she did not […]

October 23, 2015

Maria…..

So I’m not sure what is happening with her. She hasn’t talked to me since I warned her about hitting Hayden. I’ve texted her just about everyday with no word from her. Not sure if this is coming from her or from Sheryl. Like I mentioned in a previous post, Sheryl has been on a rampage lately. First in the past month I was removed […]

October 23, 2015

Will the real Sheryl come on down….

Yes over the post month the true Sheryl has come out. Over the past 18 months of separation Sheryl has been 1/2 a jerk over a lot of things. Over the last month she has been a total jerk. She wanted Hayden’s scrapbooks because she made them. I told her I was going to make copies of the pages first. She demanded a time frame […]