It’s been a long long time

So it has been a while since I wrote anything on the site. I’ve tried to stay away from writing about my EX. But she has become more and more difficult to deal with.

Months ago, she and Hayden got into a fight. The next thing I know I get an email stating I was no longer welcome in her home and she did not feel comfortable entering mine. That we would exchange Hayden from the car from now on.

So we have had very little interaction since. Which is fine by me, since our divorce she has become a totally different person. I tried to get her to wear dresses and skirts, I was told NEVER. That her mothers’ religion made her wear them all her life growing up. But now that is what she wears all the time. Did I forget to mention that she has rejoined the religion that she so hated for the prior 20 years?

Sheryl pretends that she is your friend and stabs you in the back. To your face, she is all sweet and kind, if her friends only knew what she has said about them over the years.

Today she and Hayden got into another fight. I was dragged into it, she told Hayden that the only reason he liked me and not her was that I do not disciple him. He said I did, but not like a dictator like her. Sheryl said she knew me and that I was not a good man. Hayden quickly defended me saying I was, Sheryl replied, Yeah sure he is.

I’m starting to think that Sheryl is bi-polar. As she turns on you if she doesn’t get her way. As with me, he tries to get jabs into Hayden when so argues. She wants to make you mad, so in the end, it is your fault and never hers.

Back when we tried counseling, we stopped when I mentioned that during an argument, I would say “maybe I said it wrong, but maybe you heard it wrong”, trying to meet in the middle. She would say “maybe I did, but I didn’t”. She could never compromise, she was always right. Both counselors said that she needed to meet in the middle as well. that was our last visit!

She has thrown me away, but she cannot treat Hayden like that. He is old enough to see her lies. How she says one thing and does another.

As for Maria, I’m not sure what lies Sheryl has told her. I’m guessing that the loving mother she is, she told Maria some lie. That or Maria is so upset that I deleted her nude photos she had taken for her boyfriend. Not sure, but someday she will realize that I’ve never lied, harmed her, and have always loved her as my own. A divorce will never change that. I miss her